After a while, the new relationship smell wears off. The excitement quiets down to complacence and we develop routines that don’t include dating as we used to. At this point it’s easy to blame him; he’s the man, he should be dating you. Even your girlfriends agree.
Well, not this girlfriend. You see that energy you use to grumble over what he’s not doing? Let me invite you to use it differently: Since you know his likes and hobbies, buy 2 tickets to the next football game, organise a babysitter, wear the team colours and don’t take no for an answer.
There’s more love in helping your man this way than simply complaining. So go show love; plan something.