Marriage is a boat and life is the wind in its sail. Left to its own, every marriage drifts. Sometimes to fascinating destinations and other times, right into storms. You just can’t control the wind. That said, one thing every experienced marriage captain knows is that despite the wind you have the power to steer your boat anywhere.
Row with your spouse and you will get where both of you want,
Row against each other and you will get where none of you expected,
Or do not row at all… and even I wouldn’t be able to tell where you will land.
I hope you’ll choose the first option.